10/29/08

Goddess of the Week: Hela

Ever wonder where the word hell came from?  Hela, or Hel, the Norse goddess of the underworld.  She ruled over the Kingdom of the dead, and even the Norse gods recognized her pre-eminence. 

In Norse mythology, the gods were mortal.  They could die just like the rest of us, and when they did, they would join the un-vanquishable Hel.  The king of the Norse god's, known as the "All-father," was Odin, who was married to Frigga.  She was the mother of Balder, a favorite among gods and men.  Frigga loved him so dearly that she went to every being on earth -- every spider, every tree, every rock, every man -- and wheedled out a promise that they would never cause harm to Balder.  The gods thoughts this was a pretty neat trick and liked to throw boulders and such at Balder just so they could see them deflect off him without causing a scratch.  Alas, the tiny mistletoe plant did not promise to do Balder no harm.  But it was just mistletoe, figured Frigga, what harm could it do?  Plenty.  Loki, a giant who thrived on chaos and misery found out about the mistletoe and convinced one of Balder's brothers to throw it at him.  The mistletoe pierced Balder's heart, and Balder died.

Frigga begged Hela to let Balder live.  Hela may have looked over the underworld, but she was cold hearted.  She said that Balder could live if the gods could proved that every living creature mourned him.  Frigga needled and begged, but there was one -- just one -- being that refused to mourn Balder: A giantess who lived high in the mountains.  She said to the grieving mother, "Only cold tears will you get from me.  Balder did me no good, so no good shall he get from me."  

So Balder stayed dead, and most of the earth mourned.  But not Hela.  She liked her kingdom and felt that it was no punishment to be sent there, to the one place where it is Dia de los Muertos all the time.  

10/13/08

Misogyny: It's Not Just for Republicans Anymore

Anti-McCain Bumper Sticker seen while walking dog: Old Fart + Bimbo: Our Country Can do Better.  

To the writer of this pithy little statement I'd like to say "Yes!  It can!"  And it can start by getting rid of the word Bimbo.

For the record, let me state that I am not a fan of Sarah Palin.  I do not believe she is qualified to be our Vice President.  I do believe she is anti-feminist, anti-family and anti-environment.  I also believe she has confused the search for a political voice with the search for celebrity, and that, as her refusal to quiet hate-mongering Republican supporters from advocating violence against Obama suggests, she lacks both  a sense of moral responsibility and a love of the democratic pluralism that this country was founded on. 

But let me say this, as a feminist, I am unnerved by the cavalier, almost giddy misogyny expressed by opponents of Palin.  Granted, Obama supporters and people on the left were not the first to cloak Palin in misogynistic terms.  Much has been made of the fact that Palin was called "Sarah the Barracuda" in high school.  Indeed, in a rather impressively subversive act for such rigidly hegemonic organization, the Republican National Committee has adopted Heart's 1980s hit song "Barracuda" as Palin's theme song.  But subvert its intention all they try, to call a woman a Barracuda is not a compliment.  It has long been a demeaning insult to women of power and women who reject -- even temporarily -- a more feminine (which is to say more deferential) gender identity.

Barracuda slides easily into the other b-word: Bitch, another word applied to women who challenge traditional gender roles.  A quick Google search of "Palin Bitch" revealed over three and a half million links, and it doesn't take more than thirty seconds to reveal that most of those links are to people who hate Palin with visceral intensity and who use this all too common label to position her, ironically enough, in exactly the same way people on the right positioned Hillary Clinton when she seemed the likely victor in the Democratic primary.  She's a bitch.  She's mean.  She's loud.  She's strident.  She smiles too much.  She's fake.  She frowns too much.  She's evil.  She uses people.  She doesn't really care; she's power hungry.  Anybody remember how Hillary got pillaried when she talked about her "livelong" experience duck hunting?  She was a joke to people on the right.  Just like moose-hunting Palin is a joke to people on the left.

Attacking the femininity of powerful women who step outside the confines of traditional womanhood is one tried and true way of denigrating women; accusing them of loose sexual standards is another.  Which brings us back our first b-word: bimbo.  Palin a bimbo?  Really? I'm not seeing it.  But over 400 thousand people on Google are.  Bill Maher has called Palin a Bimbo. Obviously, there are those bumber stickers I mentioned, and -- good news if this is what excites you -- there are also PALIN BIMBO T-shirts.  (Again, just Google it.)

How progressive are progressives?  When was the last time Joe Biden stopped a crowd from calling a Palin a bitch or a bimbo?  When was the last time anybody told him he should?  How can we expect democrats to respect gender equality -- to demand gender equality -- when they are happy to let their own base degrade female opponents in the most traditionally misogynistic terms available?  That bumber sticker was right about one thing: Our country can do better.




10/6/08

My IT goddess

Here's a call out to graphic designer/writer/stand-up comedian/IT wiz Paula Johnson (www.paulajohnson.com) for her expert help in setting up a new email address for me: margaret@margaretfinnegan.com.  She also showed me how to do a bunch of other nifty computer things.  For all of these things I anoint her tech goddess extraordinnaire.

10/1/08

New feature: My blog list

On the right, below the link to my website, you'll find a list of some blogs I'm really enjoying these days.  In a nutshell, there's a great feminism blog called "feminist philosophers."  Super smart and yet very accessible.  There's writer Neil Gaiman's blog, very entertaining because he's great about answering reader questions, and last there is my favorite southern California food blog, Susan Carrier's "Open Mouth, Insert Fork."  Check out the links and enjoy.